Yaakov, 77

I'm a 61 year young Jewish guy. A Kabbalist, a real kabbalist, not the phony Hollywood crap. I have two grown daughters and live with my youngest and her family. I've been divorced for 20 yrs. but raising my girls didn't allow much time or money for a social life. What or who am I looking for here? A good question that I'm not sure I know the answer to. I mean yeah, I'd like to find a soulmate, someone to share whatever life might bring. I don't know if that will ever happen, but I do know that a lasting relationship has to have a solid base to build on. so I guess I'm looking for a lady patient enough to work on building that basic foundation. Being Jewish would be nice but isn't necessary. Spirituality is. penpals of any age would be nice too, one can never have enough friends.