Paladin1964, 60

I'm a white male, widowed for six years now, i have a daughter 12, and a son 15, they live with me part-time and thier maternal grandmother part-time, it's never easy, but for thier sakes it works. i was married to thier mother for 11 years before she was violently taken from us in 2004, and i believe that is a good place to stop on that subject unless more is asked later. i can tell that she was 4'11" and a petite 105 ibs. and that i for some reason have always felt an attraction for shorter women, i assure you well in advance that it has nothing to do with feelings of control, or power, superiority, that's not my style, nor what i desire, in fact nina definately taught that sometimes, the smaller the package the bigger the bang. i have always just found women of shorter stature sexy, and attractive, when they chose to they exude cofidence not because they feel they need to but because they've earned the right to by thier accomplishments, while others use it as a form of intimidation because of insecurity. i'd like to meet someone who knows who she is, what she wants for herself in this life, someone who is confident, but compassionate, who wants to be loved unconditionally and love unconditionally. i'm not very good at this it's been a long time, a little about me, i love my children, i love to read, my favorite is scifi/fantasy, but i also love fiction like james patterson, etc., and true crime drama like ann rule, i enjoy most music except opera (prefer lobotamy) and hard rap, anything to do with killing, drugs,, etc. i am a very affectionate person, i am not ashamed to kiss or hold hands in public, i like to curl up and cuddle with the one i love or give a suprise gift such as a rose just to say i love you. i try to be very openminded because i feel that a couple should be able to speak freely and openly about any subject from our S-- lives to who does the dishes, if i can't bare my soul to you and feel it's protected better than fort knox then we can't be